Friday, September 29, 2006

Saturday Slumgullion #13

I love doing these slumgullions, but with the first Disability Blog Carnival coming up at Disability Studies, Temple U. I may focus here more on non-blog slumgullionish stuff. Or maybe there will be so much disability blogging I can gather the leftovers here. We'll see how it goes.

  • Mark Boatman at Nodakwheeler had planned to escape the South Dakota nursing home he was stuck in (because of the state's lack of funding for in-home care) last May, but it didn't go as planned. Happily, he has recently made a successful break and is enjoying his freedom in Montana.
People just wouldn't talk to me. It is one of those things that is hard to put your finger on. Like there are a thousand little ways that people disregard you. And if you looked at each one, you may not think it is a big deal, and some individuals may have even had a very legitimate excuse that has nothing to do with you, but when you put them all together over time...you can only conclude that a large number of people really don't have any interest in getting to know you. I asked people out for coffee and I got turned down every time. I would go up to people and talk and they would make a hasty exit. Once this woman came up and talked to me and I was fiddling around with my hearing aid from having been using the FM system. I said, "I'm sorry, my hearing aid wasn't working and I didn't get all that you said." She said, "So you just let me go on talking when you couldn't hear me?" I said I got the gist of what she said but I might have missed some things. She made a hasty exit and has never talked to me again. I have even said hi to her by name and she doesn't even say hi back. I used to go home from church after this stuff would happen again and again and just feel like crap. Part of it was just asking myself what I was doing wrong or that was so awful? If the Unitarian Universalist can't deal with me, who can?

Crossposted at Alas, A Blog
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6 comments:

The Goldfish said...

I didn't like the video. I am rarely offended by humour about disability, but I guess I didn't think it was a very powerful message. If I was going to mock Fascism, I hope I would be a little more imaginative than to think, "Oh yeah, the Hitler salute." Especially when Dr Strangelove did all that could be done with it.

If one was going to present abhorrent political views as an impairment, one might more effectively go for a parody of all that awful stereotyped presentation of autism, stuff like "Getting the Word Out"; these people are trapped in a little world of their own, have no empathy with other people, may become violent with frustration etc.

Unfortunately, I'm not sure that everyone would get such a joke, while we live in a world where some people imagine disability is really like that.

Anonymous said...

I just read that long Dworkin thread over there at ALAS ... good God almighty. You are far more patient than I would be. But what do I know? I have a March of Dimes approved disability, so I am just lucky I guess!

Good work in keeping your cool and keep up the good work. I am looking forward to reading more analysis of popular, feminist, leftist and whatever-else culture from you, engaging a disability perspective. It's a dirty job, but... haha.

Kay Olson said...

Goldfish: I agree with you. But to be completely honest, I also laughed.

Kay Olson said...

MrSoul: Thanks. I was just happy to have a forum where both disability and feminism were taken somewhat seriously. Not all by the same people, sometimes, but there you go.

Glad to see you here.

The Goldfish said...

Okay, so I did titter when the arm of the guy in the lift (elevator?) fell clean off. ;-)

Anonymous said...

Go Mark. Glad to hear about his sucessful escape! Found some info that may be of interest on wheelchair lifts.